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Day 29 (30 Days Of LOVE Affirmations ™ )

Today’s Affirmation: ” When I Look In The Mirror, I LOVE What I See!”

When you look in the mirror, what do you see? Do you LOVE what you see? What thoughts are running in your mind? Are they Positive or negative thoughts?

It took me a while to allow myself to fully appreciate my body. There were some parts that I LOVED and others parts didn’t receive much LOVE from me. Why didn’t I embrace ALL of me? I believe that some of it was contributed to societal “standard of beauty”. On rare occasions I felt like I was less than BEAUTIFUL. Now, I’m in a place that accepts the WHOLE ME, not parts of myself.
Remember that “beauty is in the eye of the beholder”, which is YOU!

LOVE Nuggets
– You have to see yourself as BEAUTIFUL
, whether or not some else acknowledges your BEAUTY.
– Look in the mirror for at
least 5 minutes, allow yourself to be vulnerable with YOU.
– When you look in the mirror, say something POSITIVE about yourself.


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Day 22 (30 Days Of LOVE Affirmations ™ )

Today’s Affirmation: “I am now in a safe, healthy, and LOVING relationship.”
Have you been in a romantic relationship that you didn’t feel safe?  Safety is not limited to physical abuse, it includes emotional,verbal, or financial as well. If any of these areas has been neglected or violated, it poses as a threat in a relationship.  Which a person may not feel safe due to breach of trust.

Unfortunately, this can cause you to shut down emotionally, having a hard time trusting people in general, specifically when it comes to matters of the heart.  It maybe hard for you to give or receive LOVE, feel undeserving of LOVE, or feel like something is “wrong with me“.

The idea of remaining single may seem like the best form of insurance for your heart.  Because, you may view LOVE as risky and don’t want to get hurt, again.  Fortunately, it is POSSIBLE to open your heart, again.  True LOVE Is Possible, if you believe it is for you.

LOVE Nuggets
– It is Possible to have a greater LOVE experience that is different from your previous experience.

– What does feeling safe mean to you in a romantic relationship? What does that look like, visualize how you feel in safe and healthy relationship.

– Believe that TRUE LOVE Is Possible for you, because, it begins with YOU 1st and foremost.

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Day 22 (30 Days Of LOVE Affirmations ™ )

Today’s Affirmation: “I am now in a safe, healthy, and LOVING relationship.”
Have you been in a romantic relationship that you didn’t feel safe?  Safety is not limited to physical abuse, it includes emotional,verbal, or financial as well. If any of these areas has been neglected or violated, it poses as a threat in a relationship.  Which a person may not feel safe due to breach of trust.

Unfortunately, this can cause you to shut down emotionally, having a hard time trusting people in general, specifically when it comes to matters of the heart.  It maybe hard for you to give or receive LOVE, feel undeserving of
LOVE, or feel like something is “wrong with me“.

The idea of remaining single may seem like the best form of insurance for your heart.  Because, you may view LOVE as risky and don’t want to get hurt, again.  Fortunately, it is POSSIBLE to open your heart, again.  True LOVE Is Possible, if you believe it is for you.

LOVE Nuggets
– It is Possible to have a greater LOVE experience that is different from your previous experience.
– What does feeling safe mean to you in a romantic relationship? What does that look like, visualize how you feel in safe and healthy relationship.

– Believe that TRUE LOVE Is Possible for you, because, it begins with YOU 1st and foremost.

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Day 9 (30 Days Of LOVE Affirmations ™ )

Today’s Affirmation: “My Body Is Beautiful and I LOVE it”

  

“Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”  is a very common phrase that rings truth. Beauty comes in ALL shapes, sizes, and colors.  Oftentimes, we can be overly focus on outer beauty, rather than inner beauty.  Whether the focus is on oneself or another person, usually it is not uplifting. Especially, if it is about ourselves we can be our worst critic. 

 At times, I’m guilty of my inner critic because, I’m very self- conscious about my body. Specially, when I’m at the beach, I usually like to keep some parts covered.  My friends would look at me like I’m “crazy”.  They’ll say to me ” why are you covering up? you look fine.”  Most people wouldn’t guess that I’m self-conscious do to my small frame.  But it’s true, it’s all mental—  how I perceive myself.  However, I must admit that I have grown tremendously in this area. Appreciating my body and embracing my beauty (inside & outer) is an act of SELF-LOVE.

Though average person may not meet the criteria of popular beauty standards that are measured by society expectations.  You have to remember that YOU are BEAUTIFUL!  The more you LOVE yourself and appreciate your body, you will make better and healthier choices that will enhance your BEAUTY!

Additional Affirmation: “I LOVE the skin that I’m in and comfortable being me.”

   
LOVE Nuggets

  • Feel free to come up with your own LOVE affirmation or interchange words that works best for you.
  • Remember that there is more to repetition, getting in the FEELING is a very key ingredient.