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PASSIONATE AWAKENING!

I’m still basking in the LOVE that I experienced a week ago at the LOVE and LIGHT LIVE conference, which was hosted by Kevin Madison! This was one of the most powerful and transformational conference that I’ve been to in a while that was life changing. I don’t know where to begin to describe what I’ve experienced for those two days.

Recently, I was asked “what was my biggest take away?”; I responded, “ for me it was the having the COURAGE to LOVE deeper. Allowing myself to give and receive LOVE more freely and release the fear of people’s expectations (real or imagined). Overall, it’s about OWNING my GREATNESS, stepping into my POWER, and unleash the LOVE within that I have for myself and others.” That response encapsulates my emotions and thoughts of my experience at LOVE and LIGHT LIVE. It RE-AWAKENED a PASSION that was borderline dormant, because, my external world wasn’t fully reflecting of my envisioned life. I was reminded of my WHY– my reasons of pursuing my PASSION and PURPOSE. It RE-IGNITED the spark that I initially had when I started my business, which, I made a RE-COMMITMENT to my business by being more engaged. There are so many transformational SHIFTS that occurred that I want to share, however, these were my BIGGEST take aways. Which lead to my PASSIONATE AWAKENING!

Two days of being surrounded by LOVE and soaking up the LOVE ENERGY, it’s inevitable to remain the same person. My old mindset cannot accommodate the NEW person that I’m becoming, therefore, out with the old and in with the new. I’m grateful for the people I connected with, now we have a special bond to continually lift each other up in LOVE. Thank you for allowing me to share my heart with you. I’ll leave you with this, in the words of Kevin Madison “May LOVE surround you, and LIGHT shine upon you”…

Heart Moment

1) Are you currently experiencing a lack of PASSION in a certain area in your life (e.g. career, love, spiritual, and etc.)?

2) Where would like to experience more PASSION in your current situation, and what would you life look like with a renewed PASSION?

3) What can you do TODAY( NOW,not tomorrow) to RE-AWAKENING that PASSION that resides on the inside of you?

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Day 10 (30 Days Of LOVE Affirmations ™ )

Today’s Affirmation:” I am LOVED, LOVABLE, and LOVING”

  

This is one of my favorite qoutes!  It is very simple,yet, profound.  Where should I start…

This week started out ordinary, nothing special, just the “same old, same old” thing.  But, today was different, I witness three BEAUTIFUL rainbows along my coming and going.  I’m always memorized by seeing such BEAUTY and this made my day a less “ordinary.”

Later that day I met up with friends for dinner at a local Italian restaurant.  We were talking among ourselves about each other’s day, foodie knowledge, places we have traveled, and etc.  In that moment it felt so good being in the moment, being present.  This is how we are meant to live our lives, in the here and now.  

Life is not about living in the past or getting too caught up in the future, it’s about being PRESENT!  To be fully engaged in life, to live with intention, to live with purpose on purpose

LOVE Nuggets

  • Enjoy every moment of your life… you can find joy in the little things life has to offer.
  • Not matter what challenges that you maybe facing, you can always find something to be grateful for. You have to look a little closer to find it.
  • When you see yourself as LOVABLE, it can be easier to walk in LOVE.
  • Feel free to come up with your own LOVE affirmation or interchange words that works best for you.
  • Remember that there is more to repetition, getting in the FEELING is a very key ingredient.  
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Embrace Your Authentic Self! (BE YOURSELF!)

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It can be emotionally draining to wear a mask to please other people at the expense of not living your authentic self.  To live like someone else, living by other people’s expectation, or the constant comparison of yourself to others can be exhausting.  This is not to say that we should not help people or go out of our way to make someone feel special.  Also, I’m not talking about selfishness.  We can still do those things without the cost of compromising ourselves.  I believe that too often we burn out by over extending ourselves for others, whether it’s in a relationship, job, family, or etc.; while neglecting to nurture ourselves in the process.

WHY?!…

  • Why do you tend to live by other people expectations?
  • Why not be who you were meant or created to be?  Is it fear of rejection of not living the life that you want/desire? 
  • Do you tend to hold back or dim your light, because, you are afraid to stand out or shine?

We have the tendency to become resentful towards others when we feel like our efforts or love have gone unnoticed, and probably beat ourselves up for being such a giving person. Where is that resentment and self-defeating chatter coming from? Is it from the disappointment of not receiving the appreciation of others, because, you are living up to their expectation (s); and in return they are not meeting/ fulfilling your own expectation(s) that’s anticipated?  It is my personal opinion, when a person decides to be and live their authentic self on a consistent basis, it may leave little room for resentment or disappointment from other people.  Because, being authentic keeps you detached from other peoples’ expectation or opinion of you.  By not allowing the other person to have power or control over you, is living in your POWER!

Tips For Living More Authentic!

  • Develop healthier personal boundaries.  This allows either parties or more to know where everyone stands, which will allow everyone to be on the same page.
  • Be truthful with yourself!  Before you can be honest with anyone else, you have to be honest with yourself first.
  • Do not deny or suppress your feelings.  Learn how to communicate how you feel openly and constructively.  Use “I” statements, instead of “you” during conversations.  For example, “‘I’ feel like…, instead of, ‘you’ make me feel…”
  • In the same way you want someone to give you the freedom to embrace your authentic self, allow someone else the freedom to do the same.

The cost of not embracing your authentic self only shrinks the true self that continues to reinforce the false self.  Your authenticity allows you to give freely from the heart without expecting anything in return.  Which in turn, you are not attached to people’s actions or opinions that they have towards you.  Because, you will begin to learn not to take things too personally, and allow the other person to express themselves regardless how they may perceive you. TRUE FREEDOM is embracing your authentic self!  The more you live like this on a consistent basis; things, circumstance, or people that irritate or annoy will soon fade (or not have the same effect as it used to).  Hopefully, by living your authentic self can be an opportunity for the others to begin to look at themselves and begin living their authentic self.  My hope is that authenticity will become contiguous and it will free people up to live the life there are truly meant to live!  I hope that you found this helpful and hopefully you will find the courage to begin expressing the authentic YOU!

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