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PASSIONATE AWAKENING!

I’m still basking in the LOVE that I experienced a week ago at the LOVE and LIGHT LIVE conference, which was hosted by Kevin Madison! This was one of the most powerful and transformational conference that I’ve been to in a while that was life changing. I don’t know where to begin to describe what I’ve experienced for those two days.

Recently, I was asked “what was my biggest take away?”; I responded, “ for me it was the having the COURAGE to LOVE deeper. Allowing myself to give and receive LOVE more freely and release the fear of people’s expectations (real or imagined). Overall, it’s about OWNING my GREATNESS, stepping into my POWER, and unleash the LOVE within that I have for myself and others.” That response encapsulates my emotions and thoughts of my experience at LOVE and LIGHT LIVE. It RE-AWAKENED a PASSION that was borderline dormant, because, my external world wasn’t fully reflecting of my envisioned life. I was reminded of my WHY– my reasons of pursuing my PASSION and PURPOSE. It RE-IGNITED the spark that I initially had when I started my business, which, I made a RE-COMMITMENT to my business by being more engaged. There are so many transformational SHIFTS that occurred that I want to share, however, these were my BIGGEST take aways. Which lead to my PASSIONATE AWAKENING!

Two days of being surrounded by LOVE and soaking up the LOVE ENERGY, it’s inevitable to remain the same person. My old mindset cannot accommodate the NEW person that I’m becoming, therefore, out with the old and in with the new. I’m grateful for the people I connected with, now we have a special bond to continually lift each other up in LOVE. Thank you for allowing me to share my heart with you. I’ll leave you with this, in the words of Kevin Madison “May LOVE surround you, and LIGHT shine upon you”…

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1) Are you currently experiencing a lack of PASSION in a certain area in your life (e.g. career, love, spiritual, and etc.)?

2) Where would like to experience more PASSION in your current situation, and what would you life look like with a renewed PASSION?

3) What can you do TODAY( NOW,not tomorrow) to RE-AWAKENING that PASSION that resides on the inside of you?

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Don’t Give Up On LOVE!


Most single adults that I have spoken with, seems to be on the brink of losing hope of experiencing a sustainable LOVING relationship. Many are tired of going on endless dates that leads to a dead end, because, it seems like the other person is only interested in “hooking up”. Some are still recovering from a major break up or divorce and still processing their pain. Few of the single parents are ready to explore the possibilities of entering a new LOVE relationship, yet, they feel somewhat immobilized (oftentimes their ex is still in the picture). These are the few common scenarios that I encounter in conversations with these individuals. They hesitate to move forward in LOVE, because, they are afraid of the same outcome – nowhere.   

I understand how emotionally exhausting it can be if you are someone who has been single for a long time, and tired of getting on the dating merry-go-rounds ( not so merry); or those in a committed relationship the LOVE may seems a bit lackluster. The LOVE or happiness that you truly desire should not be contingent on someone else. When you learn to cultivate more SELF-LOVE and begin to live more authentically, your new mindset cannot accommodate your old mindset. You start to release old stories you believed about yourself that does not match the new person that you are becoming. Your new mindset will shift your perception on LOVE and relationships. 

Just when you were about to give up on LOVE, which, meant you were ready to give up on yourself. The feeling of emotional exhausted is trying to get your attention to look within and stop looking outward for LOVE to feel fulfilled. That emotional unrest is your inner self reaching out to you to go deeper and face your resistance to LOVE. This can feel very uncomfortable, however, this is preparation for a breakthrough where miracles happens. Breakthrough from old love/relationship patterns, self-limited beliefs, or poor boundaries that usually results in self-sabotaging behaviors that keeps you in your comfort zone. Rid the internal barriers by learning to LOVE and accept yourself, which, give yourself permission to be receptive to a romantic LOVE partner that awaits you (or renew the LOVE in an existing relationship).

It’s time to stop waiting for LOVE to arrive and start living your life and thrive. When you begin living your life you’ll notice that you are always surrounded by LOVE. While you maybe waiting on LOVE, LOVE is waiting on you to start LOVING yourself and stop putting your life on hold. Don’t give up on LOVE, because, you can create the greatest LOVE story that begins with YOU!  


Heart Reflections
 

1) What does giving up on LOVE look like to you? (e.g. a person, relationship, or yourself) 
2) What are some of your personal LOVE expectations that are unfulfilled that maybe contributing to the feeling of unsatisfactory in your current LOVE life? 

3) When you feel emotionally exhausted, what emotions are triggered? Pay attention to what you currently feeling or happening when you feel emotionally exhausted (e.g. certain thoughts, situation, person, or etc.). Self-awareness is key to help you move forward.  

If you feel like your LOVE life needs a BOOST. I would like to connect with you to help give you a JUMPSTART in your LOVE life. Click here to learn more. Remember that True LOVE Is Possible!

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MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY!

It’s time to get out of your comfort zone. Today declare that you will do something different that will lead you a step closer to your goals,dreams,or aspirations. This is where miracles happens!
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How To Handle A Break Up. .. (A Blessing In Disguise?)

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What if that break up you experienced, was a blessing in disguise?  In the midst of that separation, you may have felt confused, hurt, and probably held a hopeless outlook of your LOVE life.  Especially, if you felt like you invested a lot of time and energy into that relationship. Whether or not you were blindsided, foresaw, or initiated the break up; it’s not an easy emotional adjustment.  While you are going through the emotional roller-coaster, try not to beat yourself up of multiple reasons that lead to the ending of the relationship.  I know what I’m saying is “easier said than done”; but, hear me out.  What if you changed your personal story around those EMOTIONS that you are feeling.  You cannot change the outcome of the break up; however, you can CHANGE how you look at your situation.  Have I gotten your attention, yet?  If so, good!  If not, continue to read.create silver...

How many times are you rehearsing, replaying the same thoughts in your mind of what happened?  Are you silently torturing yourself with questions that are left unanswered; have you tried to rationalize the break up, if I would have done this different, maybe… (you fill in the blanks); or the ongoing inner dialogue of “should of, could of, would of”?  Or maybe you are attached to your personal story “I’m never going to find another person like him/her.”; and you may feel like your Love life is DOOMED!   Because, you believe (base on your personal story) that ONE person was the ONLY ONE that has the ability to LOVE you?  Well, I say that’s a bunch of B.S.!   B.S. meaning your Belief System, in regards to LOVE and relationships.  It safe to assume that a person with a belief system that doesn’t reflect a HOPEFUL outlook; it’s possible to develop a tinted view of LOVE and relationships.  If you can begin to change the story around your emotions maybe you can see a silver lining of this seemingly disappointment.

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  • What if, the break up was an opportunity for you to get back in touch with yourself, to rediscover the real YOU?  It could be a personal “Time Out” (in a good way).
  • Maybe that door had to close, in order for new one to open.
  • It can be an opportunity to grow more in SELF-LOVE, to fall more in LOVE with yourself!

Instead of counting your loss, count your BLESSINGS!

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 P.S. As we are in the midst of the holiday season & as the New Year 2015 approaches.  Why not give a GIFT to yourself to start the New Year RIGHT.  If you are ready for a LOVE MAKEOVER, A Renewed LOVE mindset.  Then join me in Las Vegas in 2015 for Creative Love SPARK Event!  Click on the logo below for more info.

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