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Don’t Give Up On LOVE!


Most single adults that I have spoken with, seems to be on the brink of losing hope of experiencing a sustainable LOVING relationship. Many are tired of going on endless dates that leads to a dead end, because, it seems like the other person is only interested in “hooking up”. Some are still recovering from a major break up or divorce and still processing their pain. Few of the single parents are ready to explore the possibilities of entering a new LOVE relationship, yet, they feel somewhat immobilized (oftentimes their ex is still in the picture). These are the few common scenarios that I encounter in conversations with these individuals. They hesitate to move forward in LOVE, because, they are afraid of the same outcome – nowhere.   

I understand how emotionally exhausting it can be if you are someone who has been single for a long time, and tired of getting on the dating merry-go-rounds ( not so merry); or those in a committed relationship the LOVE may seems a bit lackluster. The LOVE or happiness that you truly desire should not be contingent on someone else. When you learn to cultivate more SELF-LOVE and begin to live more authentically, your new mindset cannot accommodate your old mindset. You start to release old stories you believed about yourself that does not match the new person that you are becoming. Your new mindset will shift your perception on LOVE and relationships. 

Just when you were about to give up on LOVE, which, meant you were ready to give up on yourself. The feeling of emotional exhausted is trying to get your attention to look within and stop looking outward for LOVE to feel fulfilled. That emotional unrest is your inner self reaching out to you to go deeper and face your resistance to LOVE. This can feel very uncomfortable, however, this is preparation for a breakthrough where miracles happens. Breakthrough from old love/relationship patterns, self-limited beliefs, or poor boundaries that usually results in self-sabotaging behaviors that keeps you in your comfort zone. Rid the internal barriers by learning to LOVE and accept yourself, which, give yourself permission to be receptive to a romantic LOVE partner that awaits you (or renew the LOVE in an existing relationship).

It’s time to stop waiting for LOVE to arrive and start living your life and thrive. When you begin living your life you’ll notice that you are always surrounded by LOVE. While you maybe waiting on LOVE, LOVE is waiting on you to start LOVING yourself and stop putting your life on hold. Don’t give up on LOVE, because, you can create the greatest LOVE story that begins with YOU!  


Heart Reflections
 

1) What does giving up on LOVE look like to you? (e.g. a person, relationship, or yourself) 
2) What are some of your personal LOVE expectations that are unfulfilled that maybe contributing to the feeling of unsatisfactory in your current LOVE life? 

3) When you feel emotionally exhausted, what emotions are triggered? Pay attention to what you currently feeling or happening when you feel emotionally exhausted (e.g. certain thoughts, situation, person, or etc.). Self-awareness is key to help you move forward.  

If you feel like your LOVE life needs a BOOST. I would like to connect with you to help give you a JUMPSTART in your LOVE life. Click here to learn more. Remember that True LOVE Is Possible!

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Day 26 (30 Days Of LOVE Affirmations ™ )

Today’s Affirmation: “ I Am Now Attracting A LOVELY Miracle In My Life!”

Are you waiting for something good to happen, a breakthrough, or a MIRACLE? It can be in any area of your life, whether it’s in a relationship, financial, spiritual, and etc.  You may feel like you to on the brink of a breakthrough that you have been anticipating.  Or patiently or impatiently waiting for a SHIFT to happen.

At times, it can seem like All the wishing, hoping, praying, and etc. that you are doing is in vain.  Because, you are not seeing any physical “evidence” that a change is coming.  You seem like you are stuck in the same place with little or no  momentum. In those moments doubt, fear, and self-judgement can begin to creep in your mind.  Yet, that tiny little voice on the inside encourages you remain HOPEFUL.  This is where you can exercise your FAITH muscles to maintain a HOPEFUL outlook of your situation.

Expect A Miracle!

LOVE Nuggets
MIRACLES can happen at any moment, time, or place.  Keep your eyes, ears, mind, and heart OPEN to witness it.
– How can you create a MIRACLE for another person?
– Keep the FAITH, maintain POSITIVE outlook, and EXPECT what you HOPE for will MANIFEST in your life.

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MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY!

It’s time to get out of your comfort zone. Today declare that you will do something different that will lead you a step closer to your goals,dreams,or aspirations. This is where miracles happens!
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