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What Do You ENVISION Your Love Life Looking Like in 2016?

  
Lets welcome the NEW YEAR with open arms and allow yourself to embrace NEW BEGINNING! This is usually the time we tend to self-reflect, and focus on transitions we want to make (e.g. considering a new career path, changes in relationship status, health & wellness goals, and etc.). It’s important for you to set intentions for how you want experience LOVE. 

As my gift to you, I have created a LOVE exercise that can be very beneficial for you. If you’re seeking clarity and you want to get unstuck and begin experiencing momentum in the area of love, it’s time to do something different. If this resonates with you, then I encourage you to download your copy of this LOVE exercise. This exercise will help you ENHANCE your LOVE LIFE and you can get a free call with me. This call is a brief session to explore, identify, and understand what may be keeping you from the love that you truly desire. If you are seeking clarity in the area of love, then this exercise is for you! Please retrieve (click on picture or FREE) your FREE copy of this LOVE exercise and to get clear about your LOVE life!

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New Year, New Me!

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I know some people start off the New Year with great enthusiasm and an optimistic outlook.  And there maybe those few individuals who view the New Year as another day and don’t get into the “hype”, because, they may believe people’s enthusiasm are short lived.  Those few individuals may not see the difference about a New Year, because, they may view each day as a new beginning.  From that perspective, I can resonate with that sentiment. However, there is no harm to start the NEW YEAR with great enthusiasm, optimism, and positive outlook!

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Wow!!  What can I say about 2014… it went by so quickly! I must say 2014 has been a very, very, very transformational year for me. I had major internal shifts, aha moments, valuable life lessons, seemingly disappointments. However, through all that transformation emerged a BEAUTIFUL BUTTERFLY– my AUTHENTIC SELF!

What I’m grateful for 2014…
* My family, friends, and LIFE!
* Cultivating AMAZING friendships
* Started my coaching business
* Still amazed at times that I live in Hawai’i
* I felt like I grew deeper in self-love & self- acceptance.

As we begin another year, take this opportunity to reflect on 2014 and what you envision for you life in 2015!

Here Are A Few Suggestions On How To Begin
Take a piece of paper, a journal, draw, or whatever suits you.
Then ask yourself these 5 questions:
1) What Was I Grateful For In 2014?
2) What Have I Reaped or Manifested in 2014?
3) What Have I Learned in 2014?
4) What Did I Leave Behind in 2014?
5) What Am I Envisioning For 2015 ?

May 2015 be the year that you will continue to grow in your GREATNESS!!

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Self Love Dare: 7 Day Challenge!

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The New Year 2015 is right around the corner. Many of us can’t believe how this year flew by. Many of us have New Year’s goals, intentions, or positive outlook. I thought it would be a great idea to come up with a dare/challenge to jump start our New Year.
Who: Anyone can participate!
What: If you are ready to move out of your comfort zone to jump start 2015 in POSITIVE way. Then participate in this 7 day challenge!
Why: Learn how to be more committed to yourself (non selfish way). Also, this can help you keep the New Year Momentum.
When: January 5-11th
Where: Anyone can participate on my FB page: shanalovecoaching, Twitter: @shanalovecoach, or my website:www.shanalovecoaching.com
How: Each day I would post a dare/challenge for that day. Once you completed your Dare, you can post it to my social media sites (mentioned above) ,website, or all three.

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How To Handle A Break Up. .. (A Blessing In Disguise?)

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What if that break up you experienced, was a blessing in disguise?  In the midst of that separation, you may have felt confused, hurt, and probably held a hopeless outlook of your LOVE life.  Especially, if you felt like you invested a lot of time and energy into that relationship. Whether or not you were blindsided, foresaw, or initiated the break up; it’s not an easy emotional adjustment.  While you are going through the emotional roller-coaster, try not to beat yourself up of multiple reasons that lead to the ending of the relationship.  I know what I’m saying is “easier said than done”; but, hear me out.  What if you changed your personal story around those EMOTIONS that you are feeling.  You cannot change the outcome of the break up; however, you can CHANGE how you look at your situation.  Have I gotten your attention, yet?  If so, good!  If not, continue to read.create silver...

How many times are you rehearsing, replaying the same thoughts in your mind of what happened?  Are you silently torturing yourself with questions that are left unanswered; have you tried to rationalize the break up, if I would have done this different, maybe… (you fill in the blanks); or the ongoing inner dialogue of “should of, could of, would of”?  Or maybe you are attached to your personal story “I’m never going to find another person like him/her.”; and you may feel like your Love life is DOOMED!   Because, you believe (base on your personal story) that ONE person was the ONLY ONE that has the ability to LOVE you?  Well, I say that’s a bunch of B.S.!   B.S. meaning your Belief System, in regards to LOVE and relationships.  It safe to assume that a person with a belief system that doesn’t reflect a HOPEFUL outlook; it’s possible to develop a tinted view of LOVE and relationships.  If you can begin to change the story around your emotions maybe you can see a silver lining of this seemingly disappointment.

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  • What if, the break up was an opportunity for you to get back in touch with yourself, to rediscover the real YOU?  It could be a personal “Time Out” (in a good way).
  • Maybe that door had to close, in order for new one to open.
  • It can be an opportunity to grow more in SELF-LOVE, to fall more in LOVE with yourself!

Instead of counting your loss, count your BLESSINGS!

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 P.S. As we are in the midst of the holiday season & as the New Year 2015 approaches.  Why not give a GIFT to yourself to start the New Year RIGHT.  If you are ready for a LOVE MAKEOVER, A Renewed LOVE mindset.  Then join me in Las Vegas in 2015 for Creative Love SPARK Event!  Click on the logo below for more info.

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INVITATION TO LAS VEGAS!!!

Aloha Everyone!

I am extending an invitation to an event that I’ll be attending in January 2015!  My business mentors Debi Berndt & Dr. Roberto Maldonado are hosting a ” Creative Love Spark” event in Las Vegas.  If you have been seeking, hoping, looking for something like this in regards to love & relationship, then look no further.  This will be an AMAZING event for you kick off the New Year to create a better love mindset.  If you are ready to experience a change in love, then HIGHLY recommend that attend this event.  We hope to see you in Las Vegas!!

Please click on the link below to reserve your seat this event.

https://debiberndt.isrefer.com/go/SPARKLV2015/shc

or call 1-877-986-9449

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Become so clear on what you want and who you are, that finding love is effortless.

You will leave a different person. You will leave knowing the REAL YOU. The Spark will glow and draw in the person that is meant for the true you. No more questioning yourself and what you should do.

Join us for Creative Love Spark™ Experience

TRUMP HOTEL

Friday, Saturday & Sunday: January 16 – 18th, 2015 

Trump International Hotel

200 Fashion Show Drive

Las Vegas, Nevada, USA

Event Schedule:

Friday, January 16, 2015 – 5pm-7pm Welcome Reception and Registration

Saturday, January 17, 2015 – 8am-9am Coffee/Tea – Registration – 9am-6pm – Main Event

Sunday, January 18, 2015 – 8am-9am Coffee/Tea – 9am-5pm – Main Event

* Transportation to event and hotel accommodations are not included.