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YOU MATTER!!

If no one ever told you or haven’t heard this in a while … YOU MATTER! I hope this encouraged you in some way or at least make your moment seem a little brighter. That’s all I want to say…

💖If you need someone to talk to, contact the Lifeline at SuicidePreventionLifeline.org or call or call 800-273-8255 in the United States. Outside of the US, check the site or Google for local resources. 💖

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Two (2) Special Offers For A Limited Time!

At this time of year, it can be easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of holiday shopping. While you are out shopping for everyone else, don’t forget to pick up a gift for yourself. When was the last time that you bought something for yourself that can enhance your inner beauty? Oftentimes, purchases are made to enhance the outer appearances, and our inner often gets neglected in the process. By investing in a coaching session will be a gift that will keep on giving. This season choose to do something different. LIBERATION from self-imposed beliefs, self-limitations, low self-esteem, can allow you to In order to give & receive LOVE more FREELY.

I’m offering two (2) services that we will Explore and Identify why you feel “stuck” help you gain more insight/clarity to move forward in Love! Learn how to stop holding yourself back by shifting your love mindset to create a NEW LOVE STORY.

Love Breakthrough Session:

• 45 min Love EXPLORATORY call.

• Focus on the ONE area (regarding LOVE) that you are inquiring about to gain more insight.

• Limited offer: $25 (Value $97)

Love Jumpstart Session:

• 90 minute INTRODUCTORY coaching session.

• Includes a mini worksheet to complete for our coaching call.

• Limited offer: $50 (Value $197)

This is a time sensitive offer that will end on November 30, 2017 on midnight (HST).  Are ready to make your LOVE INVESTMENT to get clarity in your love life?  Sign up 👉🏾 HERE and let’s connect!

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What Does It Mean To LOVE Yoursef🤔? (Article Link👇🏾)

I read an AMAZING article that describes “what does it mean to love yourself…”. It’s a great reminder that self-love is a FOUNDATION for EVERY relationship. CLICK HERE to read the full article and please share your thoughts.

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I Relapsed😏…

Recently, I relapsed and overdosed on SHAME, DOUBT, Self-CRITICISM. At times, I tried to stop the thoughts and feelings of inadequacy from overflowing, but, it overpowered me and left me defeated. This internal tug of war began to play on my Psyche as I slowly began to entertain the idea (s) that maybe “I’m unlovable”, “will I truly become successful? or fulfill my dreams?” ,“maybe, I should just give up”, and etc. In that TEMPORARY moment of despair, it’s was easy to get tangled up in fear that dimmed my personal outlook on life. Which can seem like there’s no hope, perpetual feelings of emptiness, or nagging thoughts of “ I’m not enough”.

Thankfully, a little still voice snapped me out of my “train of thought”. I’m grateful for “random” encouraging texts/emails, social media posts, laughter of a child, unexpected surprises, and music as a friendly reminder of who I AM!

Sometimes, series of disappointments or seemingly rejections has the potential to make the heart grow weary, if you allow it. When you are in the right head space, one can see “failure” as an opportunity for growth. Sometimes, certain shake ups or abrupt changes occur to get your ATTENTION to WAKE UP! RUDE AWAKENINGS can seem really scary in the moment and is an indication for CHANGE. YOU may be being nudged to move out of your comfort zone to EXPAND🕊, to grow 🌱DEEPER, and EVOLVE in L💗VE. TRANSFORMATION is a prerequisite for GROWTH. Your natural tendency is to resist & the fear of change can make you feel like your W🌎RLD is falling apart, when actually, it can be falling into place.

During my relapse, I was only seeing things ONE way, however, I learned a deeper meaning. When I remembered who "I AM", it SHIFTED my perspective. Though, my immediate circumstance didn’t change, I gained a different meaning to my of my situation.

Overall lesson, when you feel triggered (emotional), it’s your unconscious mind trying to get your attention. It wants you to become aware of something. Possibly an old pattern that is no longer serving you.

Love Nuggets
✨To recover from a emotional relapse, allow yourself to feel your feelings (don’t stay there too long)
✨ Explore/Assess it those thoughts and feelings are true about you
✨ Change your story

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🎭The Mask You Wear 🎭

To mask or unmask… that is question🤔? The PERSONA is the mask that YOU wear. We ALL wear a 🎭 MASK 🎭, it’s our representative that people see and how they PERCEIVE us upon the initial encounter. Based on how YOU want others to perceive you, is the image you’ll PROJECT to the world. The PERSONA we take on is socially acceptable, it’s not something that in unpleasant. The truth is that we all wear a mask, because, it’s a necessity to socially navigate in our society. For some (including myself, initially) didn’t like the notion of that, because, this may imply being “fake”, “inauthentic”, “not being true to yourself”. However, as I examined further of the function of the PERSONA, it began to make more sense. Wearing a mask is not a bad thing per se, however, the difference lies between if a person is conscious vs. unconscious of the MASK they are wearing.   
What “difference lies between … conscious vs. unconscious”? If someone is unconscious (unaware) of the MASK they wear by default they may believe it’s their “true” identity; one who is conscious (Self-Aware) of the MASK they wear knows that it serves as a purpose and it’s not their “real” identity. I hope I didn’t lose you at this point, if so comment below. Hopefully, this makes sense with the aspects of conscious vs. unconscious regarding the PERSONA.

So… how does this relate to the work that I do you maybe wondering🤔?

When meeting someone for the first time our natural tendency is to put our “best foot forward” and making a great “first impression”. When we do this, it’s not being fake, we’re just showcasing or highlighting the best aspect of ourselves. This concept is displayed when going on a job interview or on a first day. As I mentioned previously, the PERSONA is socially acceptable and pleasant. However, if you keep perpetually living from this space to meet other people’s expectations to feel “accepted”, while, suppressing the REAL YOU just to show face. If you are not careful, living life on the surface may result in feelings emptiness, loneliness, boredom, resentment, or emotionally unfulfillment, or come across as “shallow”.

In addition, you maybe hesitant to let certain individuals (good intentions) to get to know you on a core level or get close to you, because, you maybe afraid that if they get to know the REAL YOU, they may not like you or reject you. Therefore, it’s easier to wear a mask to keep up the façade when you first met. Oftentimes, when this happens a person’s insecurities flares up and their SELF-SABOTAGING behaviours may unfold. Which may play out in a form of being deceitful (for self-perseverance), perform disappearing acts (stop call/text/contact) or other knee jerk reactions to keep themselves protected/guarded. These types of behaviours or logic seems twisted, however, it may serve a purpose to the individual. TRUST this is NOT an excuse for a person’s less than ideal actions, however, it’s brief insights of how (unconsciously) self-sabotage or holding yourself back can prevent you from experiencing a greater life & LOVE. Whether it’s with yourself and/or with someone else. Ideally, it’s easier to be authentic if surrounded by others who accepts & allows YOU to BE YOURSELF!

Free LOVE Assessment 👉🏾 bit.ly/FREELOVE30 (30 minutes) 👈🏾

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Mother’s Day Unique Gift Idea!


Thinking of a unique gift idea for a special woman in your life this upcoming Mother’s Day? 🎁 bit.ly/happysinglemoms 🎁

I’m offering a private coaching session for a limited time (till May 15th). In addition, I have 2 for 1 package as well, purchase a session with me and gift a Love coaching session to another single mother. This is a one of a kind gift 🎁that actually gives back. Grab your Mother’s Day gift here👉🏾bit.ly/happysinglemoms