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How To Handle A Break Up. .. (A Blessing In Disguise?)

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What if that break up you experienced, was a blessing in disguise?  In the midst of that separation, you may have felt confused, hurt, and probably held a hopeless outlook of your LOVE life.  Especially, if you felt like you invested a lot of time and energy into that relationship. Whether or not you were blindsided, foresaw, or initiated the break up; it’s not an easy emotional adjustment.  While you are going through the emotional roller-coaster, try not to beat yourself up of multiple reasons that lead to the ending of the relationship.  I know what I’m saying is “easier said than done”; but, hear me out.  What if you changed your personal story around those EMOTIONS that you are feeling.  You cannot change the outcome of the break up; however, you can CHANGE how you look at your situation.  Have I gotten your attention, yet?  If so, good!  If not, continue to read.create silver...

How many times are you rehearsing, replaying the same thoughts in your mind of what happened?  Are you silently torturing yourself with questions that are left unanswered; have you tried to rationalize the break up, if I would have done this different, maybe… (you fill in the blanks); or the ongoing inner dialogue of “should of, could of, would of”?  Or maybe you are attached to your personal story “I’m never going to find another person like him/her.”; and you may feel like your Love life is DOOMED!   Because, you believe (base on your personal story) that ONE person was the ONLY ONE that has the ability to LOVE you?  Well, I say that’s a bunch of B.S.!   B.S. meaning your Belief System, in regards to LOVE and relationships.  It safe to assume that a person with a belief system that doesn’t reflect a HOPEFUL outlook; it’s possible to develop a tinted view of LOVE and relationships.  If you can begin to change the story around your emotions maybe you can see a silver lining of this seemingly disappointment.

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  • What if, the break up was an opportunity for you to get back in touch with yourself, to rediscover the real YOU?  It could be a personal “Time Out” (in a good way).
  • Maybe that door had to close, in order for new one to open.
  • It can be an opportunity to grow more in SELF-LOVE, to fall more in LOVE with yourself!

Instead of counting your loss, count your BLESSINGS!

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 P.S. As we are in the midst of the holiday season & as the New Year 2015 approaches.  Why not give a GIFT to yourself to start the New Year RIGHT.  If you are ready for a LOVE MAKEOVER, A Renewed LOVE mindset.  Then join me in Las Vegas in 2015 for Creative Love SPARK Event!  Click on the logo below for more info.

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INVITATION TO LAS VEGAS!!!

Aloha Everyone!

I am extending an invitation to an event that I’ll be attending in January 2015!  My business mentors Debi Berndt & Dr. Roberto Maldonado are hosting a ” Creative Love Spark” event in Las Vegas.  If you have been seeking, hoping, looking for something like this in regards to love & relationship, then look no further.  This will be an AMAZING event for you kick off the New Year to create a better love mindset.  If you are ready to experience a change in love, then HIGHLY recommend that attend this event.  We hope to see you in Las Vegas!!

Please click on the link below to reserve your seat this event.

https://debiberndt.isrefer.com/go/SPARKLV2015/shc

or call 1-877-986-9449

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Become so clear on what you want and who you are, that finding love is effortless.

You will leave a different person. You will leave knowing the REAL YOU. The Spark will glow and draw in the person that is meant for the true you. No more questioning yourself and what you should do.

Join us for Creative Love Spark™ Experience

TRUMP HOTEL

Friday, Saturday & Sunday: January 16 – 18th, 2015 

Trump International Hotel

200 Fashion Show Drive

Las Vegas, Nevada, USA

Event Schedule:

Friday, January 16, 2015 – 5pm-7pm Welcome Reception and Registration

Saturday, January 17, 2015 – 8am-9am Coffee/Tea – Registration – 9am-6pm – Main Event

Sunday, January 18, 2015 – 8am-9am Coffee/Tea – 9am-5pm – Main Event

* Transportation to event and hotel accommodations are not included.